Thursday, January 25, 2007

Cherishing others

Whatever joy there is in this world
All comes from desiring others to be happy,
And whatever suffering there is in this world,
All comes from desiring myself to be happy.

But what need is there to say much more?
The childish work for their own benefit,
The Buddhas work for the benefit of others.
Just look at the difference between them!

These are the words of great sage Shantideva. Whenever I read them or are reminded of them I feel a trembling inside. I know, with every fiber of my being, that these words are true. More true than anything else. But, as Shantideva would put it; I am ignorant, feeble-minded, indolent and slothful. My mind is overwhelmed with selfish desire and wickedness. Caring for others seems to be the last thing on my mind. Caring for myself comes with no effort.

But every day I can try to become a little more loving, a little more compassionate, a little more generous and a little more wise. Drop by drop water sculpts the rock. I kindle the light of peace and understanding in my heart, hoping that one day I might be of benefit to others.

3 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

You speak about not beeing selfish, but how come I find myself in peace with giving up upon people running in circles. How come the gurus of my dreams that I'm curious about are selfish and yet wise. Your teaching of love is tempting, but doesn't convice me.

Tuesday, November 06, 2007  
Blogger Martin said...

"You speak about not beeing selfish, but how come I find myself in peace with giving up upon people running in circles."

We must know the limits of our capabilities. It is simple beyond our current ability to help some people. This is realistic, and focussing our efforts where they are most beneficial only becomes selfish if done with a self-cherishing attitude.

"How come the gurus of my dreams that I'm curious about are selfish and yet wise."

Could you give me an example of a selfish guru?

"Your teaching of love is tempting, but doesn't convice me."

Those are the teachings of Buddha, Shantideva and other masters, not mine. I am not trying to convince anyone of anything ;-)

Wednesday, November 07, 2007  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

tack martin!
detta inlägget var precis vad jag behövde läsa ikväll!! : )

Wednesday, August 13, 2008  

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